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Is it true that opposites attract?
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п»їAlthough there is a belief that the best way to form a couple is to choose someone very different from us and that it is even common for this to occur naturally under the well-known phrase "opposites attract", reality does not seem to confirm this theory.
 
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The processes that affect our decisions
 
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The truth is that by a psychological process we tend to choose what is most similar to us. Thus, we are likely to be attracted to someone with physical characteristics similar to those we have, or to a person whose name has some of the letters that form our name.
 
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Why does this happen? Because we unconsciously look for that which is familiar to us because it gives us a feeling of greater comfort. We write our name and date of birth so many times throughout our lives that it is not uncommon for us to make our decisions based on the resemblance to our name or initials. This tendency not only applies in dating but also in all the other choices we make in life: the house and the place where we live, the job, etc.
 
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Think about it: Does the person you are with have letters in their first and last name that match yours? Do your friends have similar experiences to yours? Does the job you are in have to do with your past?
 
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It is proven that we prefer people who match our tastes, our values, who have our habits and maintain similar lifestyles. We tend to choose those who have a similar social and educational level to ours. We are inclined to choose those who share similar experiences and who have a future projection that coincides with ours. We even go further and it is not uncommon to form a couple like our parents.
 
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The need to feel identified
 
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In short, it's as if we want to go out with ourselves. Is it vanity? Is it ego? Not at all. It is simply a matter of wanting to feel identified with the one we choose as our life partner. It is much easier to share goals, carry out plans and raise children with someone who agrees with us in most respects and shares our way of thinking.
 
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Is this preference negative for us? If it turns into narcissism or an excessive taste for showing off and being admired by others, yes, it is. Similarly, if your parents live roles of violence and you emulate them, it will also be a problem and you should look for the opposite to help you have a healthy loving relationship.
 
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The absolute opposite extreme is also a problem if the decision is based on a too low self-esteem that produces insecurity and can lead to anxiety or depression. Everything in its right measure. A balanced and fair self-esteem will lead us down the path of making the best decisions for our life.
 
 
   
 
   
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I'm sure you have many material and emotional goals you want to achieve. But while you're in the process, are you practicing empathy? Sometimes we live day to day so focused on our needs that we don't even stop to look at others. It's okay to focus all your attention on your goals, as long as you don't forget about those around you.
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Empathy is a skill that allows you to put yourself in other people's shoes. You can tell me that it is not really important to you or that you are not interested in seeing life through the eyes of those around you. It's true that you may have different goals and ideas, but that doesn't mean you should forget about them. In addition, being empathetic gives you the ability to better understand yourself and the world around you.
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Listening is the basis of empathy
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Since empathy is based on putting yourself in the other person's place, the first thing you need to do is to know their point of view. One of the biggest problems we have is that when we talk, we tend to create answers in our heads before the time is right. Then, the moment comes when we don't even let the other person finish talking because we have already "guessed" what he/she will say and we give our opinion.
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Empathy requires more patience. You must take the time to listen to the other person. But really listen to everything they say and pay close attention. Then, when it is your turn to speak, give yourself time to think about what you are going to say. It is an exercise that takes some time because we are not used to it but when you have mastered it you will have taken a big step.
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How easy it is to get an idea of anything! We do it all the time and without stopping to ask ourselves anything. Add to this habit the fact that we spend more time focused on our phones or social networks and you will realize that we live in an unempathetic world. Why don't you stop for a moment to see what is around you, have you looked at the people around you, do you have an idea of what they feel, dream or want?
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Empathy requires you to take a moment to stop and look at what is going on around you. Observe the people you pass by and with whom you live. What do their attitudes tell you? Ask yourself what they are doing and analyze them. This will allow you to understand others without the need for them to tell you openly what is going on in their minds.
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See situations from the other side
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When you have an argument or simply disagree with another person, the most common thing to do is to stick to your point of view. The next time this happens, put yourself in the other person's shoes. It won't be easy the first few times, but practice will help you overcome the challenge. Ask yourself: what are the other person's reasons, what do you think he or she might be feeling, what fears or doubts is the other person's behavior based on?
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You will see that little by little these questions will help you to understand the situations you are living. It is easier to go through life believing that our point of view is the right or the best, but we forget that the other side also thinks that. Empathy will allow you to see that you don't have real enemies, but only opposing ideas that can be reconciled with some effort and discipline.
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The importance of seeing a wider worldEmpathy gives you the ability to see a more complete and complex world. It may not seem very useful now, but the reality is that we live surrounded by people. All your goals, dreams and fears are based on living with others. Therefore, learning to see the world from the perspective of those around you will not only make you wiser but will allow you to reach your goals faster.
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When you are able to understand those around you, you can get them on board and they will help you achieve what you want. At the same time, you can be the change factor in their lives. The truth is that going through life rowing alone in the pursuit of your dreams is complicated but being accompanied will make the road more bearable.
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